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"Well, I'd showered and was lounging in my Big Dogs boxers, and then the OH said he wanted to go out to dinner, and I didn't want to go to the trouble of putting on pants and a shirt."


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Nov. 27th, 2002 08:27 pm (UTC)
Yup! I have several easy on dresses for that very reason. Though, I'm not sure I identify as butch. Or femme.
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Nov. 28th, 2002 08:39 am (UTC)
I don't consider myself butch, but I'm not quite "neither" either. I guess I'm !femme. But I call my gender-style ID "butch kitty" because, well, it just makes sense for me. Dresses extremely rarely, fuzzy scarves often.

Note, I told the OH about what you wrote above and he said "Of course, Betsy's a geek." (We think there are at least three gender presentations: butch, femme, and geek.)

I like all three. What an aesthetic slut I am. :)
Nov. 29th, 2002 01:06 am (UTC)
One of my many taglines has been "not butch, not femme, just a weirdo". So there's another one for your files ... :-)

Personally, the last dress I wore was as a bridesmaid 20 years ago, and I intend it to stay that way, but realistically, at the same time I know that there's not really much difference between some short dresses and some of my longer t-shirts.
Nov. 27th, 2002 09:14 pm (UTC)
Would wearing bicycle shorts under a dress count as semi-butch? ;)

And I may have to look into some comfy pairs of boxers as an alternate approach to something to wear under a dress when I don't want to wear hose of some nature. The Spandex can be a bit warm and restricting, but my thighs rubbed together when I was 60 pounds thinner.
Nov. 28th, 2002 08:40 am (UTC)
I think bicycle shorts count, yeah.

Cute name, btw!
Nov. 28th, 2002 09:25 am (UTC)
that made me giggle
my take on dresses is that they're more comfortable for me, having put on 25 lbs. after quitting smoking.
i also think it's somewhat deceptive...people don't expect a smartass in a dress.
(hope you and the OH have a great holiday)
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Nov. 29th, 2002 08:04 am (UTC)
people don't expect a smartass in a dress

My friend Roxanne (who says she sometimes reads LJ - hi if you're reading!) uses this assumption to great effect.
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