I see that they want my zip code, birth date, and gender in order to sign me up. And there are only two choices for gender. Grrrrr. I'll sign up when they let me list my gender (which is "butch kitty").
They also ask (optionally) for hair color. There are only six choices, and none of them is purple or rainbow! How unhip!
So how can I find out who listed me without signing up for this loser of a web site? [sleuthing] Hmmm. I see that someone on my friends list got some eCrush listings and is trying to find out who.
I didn't list someone with eCrush, but I freely confess that I have been wondering lately whether someone makes it to the Left Coast much.