There are always "who has a crush on whom" memes running around LJ, and I never know what to do about them. Part of the reason is that I don't know whether people generally or specifically like to know about crushes that other people have on them. So what better excuse to create a poll?
(No one can see the results except me. If you don't mind people knowing what you responded, feel free to respond or expand in a comment.)
Let's say there's someone you've known for a while and you feel friendly toward them and generally trusting toward them.
Let's say this person has a crush on you but you don't realize it, or if you suspect it you don't know for sure.
(No one can see the results except me. If you don't mind people knowing what you responded, feel free to respond or expand in a comment.)
Let's say there's someone you've known for a while and you feel friendly toward them and generally trusting toward them.
Let's say this person has a crush on you but you don't realize it, or if you suspect it you don't know for sure.
Would you want them to tell you about the crush?
yes, definitely
14(37.8%)
no, definitely not
1(2.7%)
only if i'm available for a relationship
0(0.0%)
only if they're available for a relationship
0(0.0%)
only if i find them attractive
2(5.4%)
it depends on my mood
1(2.7%)
other
8(21.6%)
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If yes, why?
I like to know things that matter to people I care about
3(9.1%)
I would find it flattering
2(6.1%)
I might be interested back
1(3.0%)
I've had suspicions and would like them put to rest
0(0.0%)
I have a crush back and I'm too shy to say anything
0(0.0%)
other
2(6.1%)
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If no, why not?
I would feel awkward if I didn't feel the same way
5(45.5%)
I prefer to be the one to make the first move
0(0.0%)
It might change our relationship in ways I don't want
1(9.1%)
other
1(9.1%)
Comment on your answer above. (255 char max)
If it depends, what factors influence whether you want them to say something? (255 char max)
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