http://firecat.livejournal.com/386025.html
Since then I've also read Hiromi Goto's The Kappa Child, which was the 2001 Tiptree winner, and Susanna Clarke's Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrell, which won the 2005 Hugo and World Fantasy awards.
Deleted my OKCupid account because they are trying to get people to use their "real names," whatever those are. Apparently they aren't going to…