Hugh Jackman drool expectations: Exceeded
Pointy object fu and things blowing up expectations: Met
Plot making enough sense while the movie lasted expectations: Exceeded (but my expectations were pretty low)
Plot elements not making sense five minutes after the movie was over expectations: Met
Racism & sexism expectations: Pretty much as expected
Totally gratuitous use of a fat suit: Unexpected. Ewwwwwww.
The OH has read the Wolverine origin stories and said they changed a bunch of things in ways he didn't like. I haven't read all the Wolverine origin stories and there was only one thing I knew they had changed.
Credits and post-credits easter egg expectations: Exceeded
ETA: Spoilers in comments